Mix together the sugar, honey, and melted butter until they are combined.
Add in your eggs, baking soda, and buttermilk.
Whisk for 1 minute, or until the mixture is well combined.
Add in the salt, cornmeal, and flour. Mix only until moistened. Do NOT overmix!
Add in the jalapeno and cheddar last and gently stir in.
Lightly grease the griddle surface with some of the avocado oil.
Ladle 1/4 cup portions of the batter onto the preheated griddle. Let cook until the bottom is golden brown and they can be flipped without falling apart. This batter is fairly delicate, so you'll have to flip more carefully than you would a pancake.
Cook on the other side until it is also golden brown and the center is cooked through.
Remove from the griddle and serve with extra butter and honey.